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A hot-tempered man stirs up dissension, but a patient man calms a quarrel. 

Proverb 15 :18-

      Its easy just to say be patient but never it has been easier to keep and maintain.  We live in the world where everything is almost as instant as sms or an instant noodle, its hard not to always expect instant gratification in other words a long goal achieved after a persistent long wait.  Be patient if the something is really there and only time knows where it will end.  Easier said than done.  Even God will end the world when His patient coming to its end. It is said that some of the best things happened and require after years of hard working and waiting, perhaps like you wait that you aged a little bit then only you can start consuming this supplement and that, and you need to wait in order to see the progress you're getting. Not only wait, but 'hard working', meaning that religiously following the routines of getting the supplement unto you.  When you are young these supplement wont show much as the body doesn't need the supplement as much since it is still producing and working well.  Just an example of how simple patient is needed and occurs in our daily life. 

         Sure, we'd all be more patient if babies didn't cry, dishes didn't break, things handled properly, and people didn't make mistakes--but that's never going to happen.  Some things just can't be rushed, but it can be altered, but then alteration takes time and energy.  The moment Im typing this my daughter is asking me for her milk and I said 'one minute' which will sure move to 2-3 minutes.  Better be going ...

         I just want to say that I am patient for a long time enough for me to end it.  Only recently I noticed that it has affected me and it is not good in a long run.  I have played neglecting and let go, but Im getting sick inside.  No matter what life must go on...

credits to rbuiteman-photobucket.

Poem and Thoughts

I got this poem somewhere from the net.  You can access the link below for more :

I used to read this some time ago in my early teaching days which I forgot when but it is still clear in mind only that several phrases I have forgotten as it was quite sometime ago.  Now this is something to ponder about the ways how one should  raise their children.

The first paragraph was meant for the negative teaching and how it effects the child and the latter is, yes the positive one.

If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn
If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight
If a child lives with fear, he learns to be apprehensive
If a child lives with pity, he learns to feel sorry for himself
If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy
If a child lives with jealousy, he learns to feel guilt

b  u  t 

If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient
If a child lives with encouragement, he learns to be confident
If a child lives with praise, he learns to be appreciative
If a child lives with acceptance, he learns to love
If a child lives with honesty, he learns what truth is
If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice
If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith in himself and those about him
If a child lives with friendliness, he learns the world is a nice place in which to live

If you live with serenity, your child will live with peace of mind

by Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D

What life did you lead when you were a child and what life your child is living now?

Back From Hibernation

Ive been lazy, been addicted to some games for the past few months and neglecting my blog. When Ive been here for the last couple of hours I was surprised to see that some followers have added up to my lists. Hence not to disappoint those buddies who like my entry, you like it dont you? I assumed you do (coughing) now Im back with a new look, I mean with a new theme, forgetting the lazy me in the past. I guess I'll start writing again as my brain is getting rusted nowadays, Im feeling that in my bone. Well life has just been the same on me, only that the days are flying, some things have changed with little bits of this and that. Now its August and moving on to September. It will not be long for Malaysia's National Day which falls on 31st August 2010 this coming Tuesday. Thus Im wishing you all Malaysian out there an advance 'Happy Merdeka Day'.

credits to molysmellowmoments.blogspot.com

Im not well..

Recently Im not as I used to be. Am getting old and worn out with times. It seems that every now and then my joints hurt and every parts of me need medications. These few days a nasty fever keeps me on the go and my body swell up with hot air. I dont know whats wrong with me. I have my legs done for good the previous week and now this fever keeps on haunting me. It really makes the body wants to explode into thin air combining it with this humid weather again. Just wish the rain will come for good during this weekend to cool down things a bit. I need oxygen.. help! A new one as my lung is breathing hot air. Perhaps of pushing too hard in routine life. I dont know what will become of me in the near future. Really, Im jealous of those healthy bodies that run the ground, gaily and handsomely. Wish me a better health tho.

30mins of changing new car thermostat to fix the aircon problem.
a set of new tyre (legs) infront..
a change of usage ..to pots of plants.

Grinning :D :D...........

Some Thoughts of Time

Emerald -credits to Vee Joe..

I knew its just the same excuse of not being able to update, busy bee. My days were busy from morning to night time, either it was spent on the road most of the time sending and fetching Emerald from kindy to the endless house chores, its the same routine work that has to be done everyday. Am I bored, yes sometimes, only there's Anas the helper to ease the tiring work. Unlike before I can stay in bed until 8 am after the late night spent staring at the computer, browsing stuffs I like, now I can hardly have a full 7-8 hours sleep as I have to wake up earlier especially during weekdays. Time really flies and draws us with it. The moment I typed the next word is already far from me. When I see little children growing and getting taller each day, I know that Im growing too, growing old along with time. I just cant hardly have enough of yesterday's childhood where life was fun and free. Quoting Mahatma Gandhi 's 'Live as if you were to die tomorrow, learn as if you were to live forever," that is something to think about the life you live today.
“The best way to waste your life, ... is by taking notes. The easiest way to avoid living is to just watch. Look for the details. Report. Don't participate.” -Chuck Palahniuk
Before the time slips from our hands, let us wind up our work well in time.
Hmm I leave you all with that, as I dont want to waste my precious sleeping time..nighty nite all.

Its Raining..Thank God!

Three days after I blog about the haze, the rain that everyone here is missing finally came last night. It was a heavy one that lasted for hours till morning. I knew it as I often wakes up once or twice at night due to nature call and last night I caught the sound Ive been longing to hear. The rhythm of the falling rain. Thank God for His grace. Relieved and glad of the cold rain were the topic today. Just hope that it will be back to normal weather, more or less rain will sooner creates a problem. The prediction of the rain only comes in May was proved wrong. So hows the weather in your place?

drizzling as I headed home..

Late Night Thoughts..

Its back to routine work which starts tomorrow. I just didnt get enough of one week of school hols in kampung (aka as village). Although dad and mum's health are not in their best condition, I always missed the moments spent there. Sometimes I wish I can stop the clock and be free like birds in the sky without any problems to think and solve. These days birds also have problems with air like the haze we face now, its almost a month without rain, I mean heavy ones and I already begin to miss the tip tapper of rain drops. I just want to believe that fine and good things do happen when you least expect them! ..(although this unbearable weather has been forecasted to persist until at least the month of May!)

angle of another sunset scene during this haze..

Seasons, Thoughts and stuffs..

Its been a while since my last entry. Not that I forgot to blog only just being lazy and has not been writing as much as I used to, busy in virtual farming and cooking in FB, so impressive huh!. The new year has passed by, calendars have been flipped, festivals being celebrated, and happenings went on and leave me on air with thoughts that intermingle each passing time..

Here in Blog Cabin the weather has been hot all the time, sometimes it looks like it was going to rain but still no sign of it. The cumulonimbus cloud were sometimes seen up there but still the days were scorching hot and so were the nights. Well I knew that other places were even hotter, only that I just write to remember the happenings that happened to mark those days, be it blue and red, its the life colour that comes to blend.
To those who live in the same climate as mine, do remember to drink more water to prevent dehydration and to those who don't..how's the weather in your place?
Till then have a happy Sunday and welcome the Monday blues of tomorrow.
Will continue again, sometime..probably..
Bits of Blog Cabin scene in the hot..